I am 56 years old. My husband has gambled almost all of his inheritance. He started out with a little over 90 thousand dollars and has a little over 20 thousand left. We could have been completely out of debt. Now because I won't let him gamble he won't work enough hours to pay our bills. He doesn't want me to go to work because someone might take me away from him. We are in debt about 65 thousand dollars. I have a 10th grade education so it's impossible to find a job that will pay at least 25 dollars an hour. I have been an assistant manager of a convenient store, cashier, and waitress. I have taught myself a lot of things about computers...still a lot to learn though. Can anyone please help me?